Why so much hate towards Black Women?

Black men don't want us and white men only want to have sex with us.  We are beautiful, smart and strong.  Will somebody be honest and tell me why all the hate please?

Malcolm X said it best:

The most disrespected person in America is the black woman.
The most unprotected person in America is the black woman.
The most neglected person in America is the black woman.

Beyonce brought his speech back to life from her Lemonade album last year.

If I am strong and confident it's misconstrued as angry.  If I am smart, it is being seen as wanting to be white.

Let's have a conversation.

Someone Once Told Me...

Someone once told me I wasn't worthy of his love, of his time, of his heart.
Someone once told me no.
Someone once told me I wasn't pretty enough, wasn't smart enough, wasn't thin enough to matter.

Someone once told me I didn't make a difference and my life means nothing.
Someone once told me my own worth.

If that someone wasn't me, then all this is not true.  And if that someone was me, then I need to start saying and hearing something different.

Someone once told me no, wait...
                   I told myself I am worthy, I am loved, I am good enough and that's all that matters.

Hold you're head up, smile, recover, and realize your worth. --Writer Stewie